You can be on the toilet texting someone versus having to actually show up for them.” Shortly after their discussion, she began posting videos about her revelation on TikTok where she has more than 620,000 followers. “That’s when the stars aligned,” she says, “and I was like ‘Holy sh-t! Texting doesn’t mean anything.’ It’s low effort. I have no interest in having a digital relationship or talking endlessly with someone via text.’” He preferred to spend quality time with her in person. I stare at my screen for nine hours a day. “He set a boundary that I will never forget,” says Zohar, who’s a dating coach and host of the podcast “ Do the Work.” “He said, ‘ is not a sign of my disinterest.
About a month into dating, Zohar told him that she wanted to communicate more - they usually texted every few days - between their dates so she could feel more connected to him.